I try to be grateful for my blessings every day, but wanted to write some of them out for Thanksgiving. These are just some of the things that I'm thankful for...
- My kids, who have taught me the meaning of unconditional love.
- My family and friends, who are always there for me.
- Quiet times like this when the kids are sleeping, I'm drinking my morning coffee and I can sort through my thoughts.
- Having a job that I love with co-workers who I consider friends and an office mailman who brings me candy and throws back a beer with me at our happy hours.
- Neighborhood parties with some of the coolest people on earth, who are like my second family.
- My cat Kiki, who knows just when to jump up onto the couch to cuddle with me – She has become a great companion to me and my kids over the past year.
- All of my races, which have been a great therapy to me - especially over the past few years. They've taught me that nothing is impossible and that I can overcome any obstacle that’s put in front of me. I might come out with a few bumps and bruises (and even maybe a broken bone,) but I can still get through it.
- Bon Jovi concerts – more therapy for me, but way more expensive than my races and much less frequent.
- My health – It’s amazing how much stress and sadness can affect our health. In the past, stress has caused me lots of aches, pains and headaches. Removing the negativity from my life was a very painful process, but in the end, I feel 1,000 times better – both mentally and physically.
- First kisses, breaking down walls and taking risks in search of happiness and love.
- My ability to think positively and see (or sometimes imagine) the light at the end of the tunnel – It’s gotten me through some very dark places.
- My ability to speak my mind and not keep things bottled up inside
- The angels in my life who have appeared out of nowhere to help me through something difficult - and my ability to look for and accept their help.
- All of my failures and disappointments, which have been great learning experiences. I have no regrets, and know that everything that’s happened to me has led me to exactly where I am right now – and that is a truly wonderful place for which I am very thankful. J